It is with great sadness that the Alexander Technique teaching community of South Africa mourns the loss of Cheryl Herbert who passed away on 18 May of this year, 2024. Cheryl’s teaching of the Alexander Technique was as inspired and intuitive as it was precise and masterful. The words of individual Alexander teachers which follow this tribute attest to how transformative an Alexander Technique lesson with Cheryl was and the great pleasure those of us who knew her took in her company. Cheryl also offered her remarkable dynamism to SASTAT through serving on the Council from 2010 to 2019 and as Chairperson from 2012 to mid-2016. Her energy, drive and dedication were a source of inspiration to those on Council. She led the renewal of our old original website and established SASTAT on social media through Facebook. She took great care and consideration as to how SASTAT and the Technique were presented online and as a society we were the lucky recipients of Cheryl’s extraordinary organisational abilities and perseverance applied to seeing the website project fully and exceptionally realised.
Cheryl was born in a small, rural town in Zimbabwe (then Rhodesia) on 23 August, 1961, and would have turned 63 this year. She moved to Johannesburg with her family in 1976, attending Benoni High School briefly before leaving school to start work. She gave birth to her only child, Bronwyn, at 17. Cheryl worked in various capacities before developing in her early twenties what was to become the first arc of her career: working in the corporate world offering business consulting, corporate marketing and in-house training and professional development programmes. Cheryl’s creativity and thoroughness were ever-present and she was much in demand for the services she offered. Bronwyn describes her as having been a ‘workaholic’, up until 3am finishing detailed and insightful reports far beyond what her clients expected and then up again and ready to go early the next morning. Along the way of this work she did a counselling course and was honing and consciously understanding her innate ability to perceive people, their struggles and how to unknot them into freer ways of being.
By her late forties, Cheryl was looking for something more, something different to her corporate work, exhausted from its demands and the high standard of delivery she held herself to. She discovered the Alexander Technique and that became the next major arc in her life’s work. Reading every book she could find on the Technique and finding different teachers to work with wherever she happened to travel while still working as a freelance business consultant, she came to the decision that she wanted to train as a teacher herself and started on the training programme run by Nanette Andersen in Johannesburg, qualifying in 2010. In 2013 she did a postgraduate course at the Teacher Training Centre in Galway, Ireland.
Cheryl ran a lively Alexander Technique practice called MoveInMind in Johannesburg and continued to augment her Alexander teaching with training in other practices. In 2015 she did a course to teach Trauma Release Exercise (TRE), in 2017 completed units 1 and 2 of the Lyno Method training and, also in 2017, a fascial release technique course. The Alexander Technique remained her core practice for helping people facilitate the free and easy use of their psychophysical selves. Although drawing primarily on her counselling skills, Cheryl’s one-on-one ‘Creative Conversations’ life-coaching sessions were informed by the Technique’s mind-body awareness. For those who Cheryl knew well or with whom she had developed a rapport , her AT session would be what she called, ‘Alexander Plus’. Caryn Katz describes these sessions well below and, in a broad sense, they were a combination of the psychophysical explorations of the Technique with the psychodynamic processes the psychophysical connects to.
Cheryl’s fascination with the conscious use and expressive capacity of our moving selves was voracious, shown in her active recreational participation in the expressive movement and contact improvisation communities and explorations for her own pleasure in modalities like the Feldenkrais Method.
In 2019 Cheryl was diagnosed with colorectal cancer, though she herself was reluctant to name what she was experiencing as this. I (Alex Halligey) asked her in the March of 2022, drawing on the words of Tommy Thompson, if she was ‘consciously not giving a western biomedical definition’ to what she was going through in order ‘for the experience to be less defined and limited by definition’. She replied that this did resonate, adding, ‘Even I do not have an absolute reason for withholding open and general sharing of my condition, yet I am respecting and honouring my own process’. Later, in the July, she wrote to me, ‘I have been having a tough time. Still, I feel inspired on my healing journey and every day I practice ways to be in this living-dying balance’. We can only but stand in awe of Cheryl’s profound willingness and capacity for accessing the attentiveness to being that is the Alexander Technique’s foundational offering and resource.
Cheryl’s wisdom, empathetic humanity, creativity and capacity to connect were deep and rare. We will miss her greatly.
By Alex Halligey and Tom van Hove, with grateful thanks to Bronwyn Gottwald for sharing information and insights into Cheryl’s life
Cheryl, photograph by Refia Sacks
Personal Tributes to Cheryl
I had many Alexander Technique lessons with Cheryl over the years and these spaces were always so rich with wisdom and gifts that she shared so freely. She was never ‘on the clock’ with you. I remember looking at the garden from her studio once and she asking me to notice and enjoy the small movement of leaves gently on their stems. Then allow that in myself. Small releases and allowances. Nothing and everything.
Her teaching room was cosy and cool and I always felt free to be myself exactly as I was.
I remember bumping into her once at the Bryanston organic market. I was with my mom. The surprise of seeing her there and the shock of her beauty and warmth. I thought – Yoh! Who is this incredible woman? I felt so lucky to call her a teacher and friend. She embodied the Alexander Technique as one of the most graceful, intelligent people I knew. Thank you, Cheryl, for teaching me. I am a better Alexander Technique teacher and person because of you.
Caryn Katz
BREATH OF FRESH AIR
After Cheryl’s brief – one day only, but meteoric – visit as the Chair of SASTAT to our training school with Walter Vaughan-Jones in Cape Town , we agreed at once: “CHERYL IS A BREATH OF FRESH AIR” to the Alexander Technique community in South Africa.
Her style was clear, she emanated excellence, effectiveness, and professionalism. It would have been difficult not to be inspired by her. In her time as chairperson, she fostered inclusiveness, drawing in everybody with any connection to the AT community in South Africa. She also turned the AGM into an enjoyable event with opportunities to meet, engage and learn from each other. Being newly qualified, I felt encouraged and understood and in no way intimidated.
Most important of all she brought a sense of love, understanding and compassion into the SASTAT community.
Thank you, Cheryl, for being an inspiring role model.
Andrzej Wall
Some ten years ago, or so, an ‘Alexander teacher from South Africa’ whom I didn’t know, turned up in London and asked if she could stay with me. That was Cheryl. Luckily it was holiday time and my teaching rooms were not in use. So she camped there and very soon we were firm friends. Her openness, ease, lightness and generosity were instantly there to be shared. On one of her several visits to me in Cape Town the first thing she did was go to Woolworths and come back laden with huge quantities of fruit and a very large pack of toilet paper. Though we didn’t work much together we had fun times and her lovely spirit will remain in my memory.
Refia Sacks
The Spirit of Cheryl, photograph by Refia Sacks
Cheryl had a radiant spirit and a generous heart. She always made it a priority to encourage others, and honour people’s contributions so that they knew their gifts were acknowledged and appreciated. When Cheryl served as the Chairperson of SASTAT, it was her joy to bring teachers together at the AGM and promote a spirit of unity, shared learning, and growth. I recall her enthusiasm when she planned the first AGM she chaired in Cape Town. She glowed with the excitement of her idea to combine it with a special ceremony to honour the senior teachers in our society for their significant roles in setting the cornerstone of the Alexander Technique in South Africa. Unfortunately I couldn’t be present at this wonderful occasion, but Cheryl invited me to write a tribute for our late teacher, Nanette Andersen, that she read at the ceremony, which I thought was a lovely way of allowing me to be included. It was Nanette’s training course that connected my path with Cheryl’s.
It makes me smile when I recall the first day of our acquaintance. It was a lovely sunny day. Cheryl and I were chatting in the garden over a cup of Nanette’s special brew of homegrown herbal tea when we discovered our remarkable ability to ruffle each other’s feathers completely unintentionally. It was a relationship dynamic that had a remarkable effect on me because when the feathers settled again they would be arranged a little differently with a new perspective or awareness that was refreshing and necessary for growth. Those moments will continue to resonate in me with love and gratitude for the myriad insights they brought, as well as how they highlighted our inclination to truly respect and remain attuned to the very best in each other at all times.
Cheryl was a seeker in every sense, and her presence on the training course initiated deeper reflections and greater expansion of our enquiries. She had a natural eloquence that illuminated our group discussions, and an elegant way of meeting various explorations that revealed her high-minded approach to life. We were enriched by the vast realm of life experience she carried into the learning space, the questions she asked, and the support she gave through her words, hands and heart.
While listening to the beautiful eulogy for Cheryl on the 21st May, I was aware of the subtle peace and grace permeating the church and flowing through my heart like a gentle confirmation of the blissful current that ensues from a life well lived. Cheryl deserves all the honours and special tributes she bestowed on others. Hers was a life that shone with purpose and glittered with many facets of exploration and discovery. I can imagine her joy now as celestial vistas and cosmic waves beckon her to dive as deep and soar as far as her boundless soul desires. A new journey has begun, Cheryl is in her element, and blissfully on her way.
Heather Marti